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snowy day!
is it just me…
our daughter
meet our daughter…
isn’t she the cutest?!
here are her little legs, feet crossed at the ankles. such a lady already!
here she is giving us a ‘thumbs up’
and here is the gender shot. since i know what to look for, i saw the 3 white lines before the tech even said anything!
seeing your baby on the screen just never gets old. in fact, i think this ultrasound was my favorite {am i allowed to say that?}. everything was so clear, and she was doing all sorts of darling things. plus, the lady doing the ultrasound was the kindest person, and spent lots of time gushing along with us.
a LONG time ago, brian and i talked about how fun it would be to have 3 girls {of course, realizing that we would have zero control over it}. that’s not to say that we wouldn’t be excited about having a son, because OBVIOUSLY we would. we just sort of pictured 3 girls. almost everyone we know was hoping for a boy. we’ve heard all sorts of reasons why we, or more specifically brian, needs to have a boy. we would just smile and say “we’ll see. there’s a 50/50 chance”.
when we found out our baby was a girl, we were really excited. really, truly excited. that probably doesn’t make sense to a lot of people. but we were. are. i don’t know what God’s plans are for our future. maybe He’s laughing right now, because he knows he’ll be sending us a son. Or maybe this is it. three girls. either way, we are so excited for our family. so excited that our girls will have each other. 3 sisters close in age, how fun will that be! And my husband, the most manly man i know, surrounded by ladies. He loves his little darlings so very much. And don’t worry that he’s missing out on anything by having girls…
Finley knows her way around a tool box better than most boys!
oh, and one final somewhat frightening thought: our girls will all be in high school at the same time. a freshman, sophomore, and senior. wowza!
oh boy!
home
It’s been a crazy few weeks, but we’re all settled in our cozy new home and we couldn’t be more thrilled. The original plan was that we would move in to our new place on the 1st, the day after the renters moved out. My family was under the impression that they were ‘good renters’ who would be leaving the house in good condition. holy. mother. of. disgusting. That was not the case at all. My mom and I took at walk through the house and were utterly speechless. seriously we had no words-just jaws dropped. Before even taking two steps in the door we were hit with the most horrific smell {think animal pee + cigarette smoke + general dirtiness}. And the stains, oh the stains. There were so many pee stains throughout the house, I really don’t know where one stain started and stopped. THEY WERE EVERYWHERE! And the real kicker…. they left the house full of their crap. couches, tables, old electronics, kitchen stuff, trash, you name it.
Needless to say, we had to change our plans and push back our move in date. Brian and my parents worked together to clear the house of their junk, remove the carpet {which allowed us to uncover wonderful hardwoods-hooray}, paint, and disinfect every square inch. Finley’s room was by far the worst in terms of smell. There were pee stains all over the walls, and nicotine crusted in the blinds. Thankfully, the smell is almost gone and she’s not commenting on it anymore.
The transformation that took place in a week is just crazy. It’s like a completely different house. We are so thankful to my parents who have worked so hard to make this home a nice place for us. My dad gave up his vacation, and took another week off to get this house in order, inside and out. And my mom has been so helpful watching the girls, helping unpack and organize, doing our laundry for us {we are without a washer/dryer for a bit, and i had no idea how awful it would be}. Basically, they are awesome and we are EXTREMELY grateful.
And of course to my husband, too. He unloaded our moving truck and then left immediately to stay the week at our old place getting it ready for the people moving in this weekend. He hasn’t slept in two weeks, and i’ve never heard him so exhausted. We miss you babe, and I promise to let you sleep in all weekend {although i can’t say the same for Finley-she really misses her daddy}.
On Sunday night, I left the girls with my mom and took off for a baby shower. I was feeling so overwhelmed by the house full of stuff {and no husband around}, but most troublesome was the fact that none of us had beds for that night. On my way home, I got a call from my mom telling me that a bunch of family and friends had stopped by. People were unloading, unpacking, and most importantly someone had set up our beds {sheets, blankets and everything}! I just started crying, thanking God for all the people who love us so well. You know who you are, thank you. You have no idea how much it meant to us.
We’ve been settling in all week. I’m slowly making progress on the gazillion boxes we have. I was curious how finley would react the moving, the change of it all, waking up in a new room, etc. She’s done great! Both girls seem very happy here…we all are.
Here’s what we’re loving so far:
:: the location {great commute for Brian, close to family, close to a town with all the essentials}
:: the paved, flat, 6 mile trail that is across from our house
:: the layout of the house. the fact that the playroom is centrally located so no matter where i am, i’m near the girls
:: the big fenced in back yard
:: the large dining room {we finally have room to fit our entire dining set, plus a buffet, and extra storage thingy}
With all our focus being on renovating, and moving, I’ve hardly remembered that tomorrow is the big day that we find out if we’ll be welcoming a baby boy or girl. I still think it’s a boy. So does Finley, and she insists that we’ll call him doofy. Last night during our prayers she reminded me, “don’t forget to pray for doofy”. Could she have come up with a more hideous name? Ha, I love her.
We aren’t entirely sure, if this will be our last child. I would love more. But, 4 c-sections is risky and controversial. I joke that unless Brian gets snipped, we’ll probably have a 4th. Two out of our three have been ‘surprises’. Anywho, perhaps because this could be our last, a teensy weensy part of me has thought about not finding out the sex. Brian wants to, and I mostly do too, but we’ll see what happens over the next 24 hours…
halloween
{first trimester}
This post is a little overdue. We’re so busy with moving, blogging is the last thing I have time for. But I’m glad that I’ve documented my last pregnancies, and I know I’ll regret it if I don’t this time around. So here goes…
-my first trimester with baby no. 3-
:: i had my first experience with morning sickness. it was awful, and lasted all day everyday weeks 5-12.
:: got to hear baby’s heartbeat at first prenatal check up {11 weeks}
:: had to get a very brief ultrasound at 16 weeks for an ovarian cyst {no big deal}
:: strong instincts that this is a boy. based on my “gut”, my leg hair growth theory, the fact that finley says so, and the chinese gender chart. all very scientific, i know.
:: started feeling baby kick around 15 weeks, which was a delightful surprise because i didn’t feel either of the girls until 20 weeks.
so that’s about all.
at my ultrasound the technician told me we could find out the gender, but our stubborn little baby would not turn over…no matter how i hard i poked at it when the lady wasn’t looking.
so we’ll have to wait a couple of weeks for the cute profile pic and the big gender reveal!
Taking self portraits is not as easy as it looks, especially when you want your belly to stay sideways!
growing…
since i’m terrible at keeping up on baby books, this blog has become the place to do it.
so…
our little adalaide learned to crawl at 7 months.
she is freakishly fast. i’ll leave her for half a minute and find her in a completely different room.
at 7 1/2 months she figured out how to go from laying to sitting.
now she’s working on pulling herself up. she can get up onto to her knees, so we had to lower the crib.
lowering her crib got me wondering how i’ll be able to get her out when it’s all the way down and
i have a huge belly. i think i may need a stool of sorts.
adalaide is pretty quiet and laid back. more than one person has jokingly asked if she has vocal cords.
i’m happy to report that yes, in fact she does. she has figured out how to squeal and if she wants something
that she can’t quite reach she makes this growling sound. it’s cute/fun to see her personality unfold.
once adalaide was able to sit, it seemed like the gap between her and finley lessened pretty quickly.
obviously, they’re not really playing together, but sometimes they kind of are.
and now that adalaide can crawl after her sister’s toys {which of course are MUCH more interesting than baby toys}
finley is learning the art of sharing with a sibling.
and a funny side note: finley is so repulsed by the smell of adalaide’s formula drool,
she runs into the bathroom to rinse off any toy that adalaide puts in her mouth.
i don’t really blame her. it’s nasty.
finley just had her 3 year check up, and is as healthy as can be.
31 1/2 lbs {25-50 %}
37 inches tall {50%}
finley’s current interests: singing/dancing, dress up, playing outside, tea parties, caillou,
baking, board games, art, and needing to know everyone’s middle name {like, even the lady in the target fitting room}.
also, she loves to reminisce. nearly every sentence starts with remember.
“remember when i was a little girl and we went there?”
“remember when i was five and i did that?”
“remember when i _____ when i was a baby?”
“remember when i was a boy…?”
{still confused about that one}
i’ve gone on and on about her feisty, silly side that loves making people laugh, and also gets her into a fair bit of trouble.
but she’s also the most loving girl. i’ll leave you with this moment we had that i don’t ever want to forget…
i was tucking her, and we laid in the dark for a few minutes.
after a while she asked, “do you want to hold hands?”
so we did for a few minutes.
then i felt her move some hair off my face and she kissed my cheek and said,
“you are so beautiful, mommy.”
{it was pitch black, but it’s the thought that counts}
and then she reached for my hand again and said, “i love you mommy. you are the best mommy.”
aw. i’m tearing up right now.
i’ll hold onto this memory for the next time she decides to cover her body head to toe in hand soap,
or for tonight at dinnertime when she switches chairs at least 20 times.
do they make toddler high chairs? i got off track.
we love her. and we love her big heart. here’s to 3 being the best year yet!
{three}
Our first baby turned THREE on friday! We celebrated her birthday with 7 of her friends, and their families, at Jubilee Farm. If you live in the Seattle area, you know that the weather this weekend couldn’t have been more gorgeous. Hallelujah! We had lots of fun going for a hay ride out to the patch, picking pumpkins, doing a hay maze, and having a picnic lunch in the sunshine.
finley had lots of fun helping me make these delicious treats for the favor bags.
party favor bags
my proudest accomplishment, and finley’s very favorite element of the party
i’m sure i’ll think this every birthday, but i CANNOT believe she’s three!
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